Sometimes I'm asked what things stand out for me during the booking process, or how can somebody be the ideal client? The answer might surprise you. It seems like people think that what workers like me want is the same as what you imagine a gal might look for in the dating market, but thats far from correct. here's a list of the top 5 things that will make you the ideal client, and one of my favorites <3
1. Reading the ad fully !!!
Somebody who's read the ad will contact you when your available, will include their name age and occupation in the first message this saves time and makes me think of you as thoughtful and competent, we're off to a great start.
2. Texting discreetly!!
Nothing is worse than setting up an appointment and then having to cancel it and block a fellow because he's gone off and said something he just can not say- but when somebody texts discreetly, I know they care about their own safety and mine, and I truly appreciate it.
3. Showing up on time!!
This shows me you respect my time and me, and that your a thoughtful person, I always appreciate this & I extend the same respect back.
4. Never assuming consent!!
Nobody likes when consent is assumed, it's dehumanizing and degrades trust. The exact same action, taken without consent can feel gross, while if simply asked first if it's ok, can feel really safe and good. Always ask rather than assume. Also this refers to in person interactions only, never ask anything over the phone.
5. Arrive clean, or be happy to rinse off before we get started.
No elaboration needed lol
So were these things surprising to you? it's pretty easy to be a favorite, you might already be one and you didn't even know xoxo
Lilly White